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Quite frankly, if you had told me that I could stop smoking easily, with no effort, no cravings, no withdrawal symptoms nor fluctuating moods and tantrums, I'd have kicked you in the shins and buried you somewhere near Jimmy Hoffa.

I smoked for 20 years. Not something I'm ashamed of or something I am proud of. It is a fact. From the time I was 17 I was addicted to nicotine, each year smoking more than the year before. If you asked me, I enjoyed it. I wasn't hooked, it was a habit I loved. I was good at saying that, even managed to do say it with a straight face. It was a lie. From the beginning I hated it. The taste, the burn, the acrid smoke, the breathlessness. Not to mention the smell although to be honest I couldn't smell it. I had no sense of smell left. I guess I probably owe a huge apology to all those people who have been trapped beside me on trains or in classrooms or elevators over the last 20 years for the stench of stale smoke I carried with me wherever I went.


Over the past few months I've at least been honest enough
with myself to admit, I hate smoking. The cost is ridiculous, the taste is not anything you're ever going to buy in a bottle and sprinkle on your evening ice cream. I seemed incapable of climbing stairs or walking for any length of time for that matter.

I sat at home and I whinged and complained about how "hard' it was to quit, without actually trying to do so. In October 2010 I was loaned a book by a friend of mine, written by a UK author named Allen Carr. I had never heard of him or his "Easyway to Stop Smoking". Frankly I agreed to read the book purely to be able to say "see, I told you it was a con. Smoking is never easy to quit." About 20 pages from the end I conveniently lost the book and continued smoking.


Easyway to Stop Smoking Allen Carr
The Book That Changed My Life


In June 2011 I was cleaning my room and came across the book, sitting proudly on the book shelf - so much for having lost it - and decided to give it another go. If nothing else it would make a decent blog about how gullible people were and how awful people were who cashed in on the desperate and the addicted.

So I read it. It is a very easy book to read, and contains a lot of information we've all heard a million times before, but what caught my attention was that the author truly believed what he had written. Of course it wasn't going to work for me, but he seemed to believe it.

As I read the last pages of the book I did as instructed and smoked my last cigarette, fully expecting to go and buy another packet within the hour. Turns out, that didn't happen.

Today has been 16 days since I stopped smoking. 16 packets of Dunhill Blue I haven't purchased, 400 cigarettes un-smoked and $280 saved. I keep waiting for the cravings and horrific withdrawal symptom's to start, but they seem nowhere to be found.

If I hadn't experienced it myself I wouldn't believe it. Actually I would outright call anyone who claimed to have stopped smoking "effortlessly and instantly" a bloody liar. But that is exactly how I did it.

Yes there were withdrawal symptoms, of course there were, but quite frankly they were almost non-existent. A slight tension in my chest and a slight feeling of panic for a couple of hours. Otherwise nothing.

Do I miss them? Not in the slightest. Do I miss that one after dinner or that first one in the morning over coffee? No.

One thing I took from the book was that all of us are born Non-Smokers, none of us are born "needing" a cigarette to wrap up a meal, handle stress, handle boredom or make a social occasion better. All of us are born perfect non-smokers and each of us who develop the addiction of smoking do so only after much hard work and many cigarettes.

The other thing I took from the book was the absolute ridiculousness of replacing nicotine while quitting. I've lost count of the amount of patches I've bought, gum I've chewed, lozenges I've sucked, and tablets I've taken in an attempt to get rid of cigarettes. I've paid out hundreds of dollars for hypnosis, on cassettes - wow that ages me instantly - NLP and god only knows what else I've done in an attempt to quit smoking. If I'd found that book 20 years ago it would have saved me a lot of time and money.

Recently I had to go to the doctor about an ear infection. While there he did his usual "smoking is bad m'kay" routine and I mentioned that I was reading the Allen Carr book and I was going to give that a shot. He ignored me outright and told me next time I went to see him he would give me a prescription for NRT. When I did go to see him again - for more antibiotics - he didn't mention smoking at all. Probably cause I'd stopped for over a week by that point. It's the first time in the 5 years I've been going to see him he hasn't mentioned it.

Can I guarantee Allen Carr's Easyway to Stop Smoking will work for you? Nope, I can't but the Allen Carr clinics do offer a money back guarantee and boast a 90% success rate.

I can't recommend Allen Carr's Easyway To Srop Smoking highly enough for those who read this post and are wanting to quit smoking. Give it a try, there are books, DVDs, clinics all over the world, there are facebook groups and twitter pages. Look it up and give it a shot.
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Stay Positive & Find Your New Job

September 27th 2010 07:27
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With a national unemployment rate of 5.3% in July 2010, the Australian economy showed signs of a slight slowdown. For the 631,800 Australians currently unemployed and searching for a fulltime position, this comes as no surprise.

As the number of long term unemployed continues to rise, the struggle to maintain positivity and motivation in the face of constant rejection can become crippling.

“Be discerning” says Christine Khor, director of Melbourne based recruitment firm Carrera Partners. “Don’t just apply for work in a scatter-gun approach; all that does is ensure rejection.”

Sally-Anne Blanchard from agrees.

“Candidates need to tailor their applications and be more discerning about the roles they are applying for” she says “the flick and stick method of job seeking just doesn’t work.”

Ailene Belesina, 29 from Sydney found that by being discerning about the jobs she applied for she secured the next step in her career in just three months.

“I was lucky to have some money saved and a redundancy package to lean on” she says “I aimed for 5 applications a week, and stayed true to my career path by not applying for everything in sight, no matter the state of the economy at the time.”

While it can be difficult to maintain motivation in the face of continued rejection, Nick Petrovic, Clinic Coordinator, at Mind Profile Clinic Liverpool, says job seekers need to remember to not “take rejection personally ... there are a lot of factors why someone may not get the job.”

“No one likes getting rejected” he says “but instead of letting it get your down, turn a negative into a positive.”

Turning a negative into a positive worked for Rod Figliolini, 24, who spent 7 months looking for work in 2009. “Fear kept me motivated” he says “fear of having serious money problems.”

Keeping yourself moving is difficult, but the old cliché of never give up ultimately provided Rod with the break he was looking for.

“I was about to give up when my phone rang early one afternoon. I was still in bed, and wondering what I was going to do that day. The man on the phone had interviewed me 2 weeks earlier, and he called to ask if I could start work on Friday.”

“I had done a day’s training with the company after the interview, and then didn’t hear anything from them. Never give up is the best advice I can give, because it happened to me.

Setting goals is what kept Tina Pacey, 37, from Hornsby motivated during the 6 months she was looking for a job.

“I’d go window shopping” she says “looking at all the nice things I’d be able to buy when I got a new job. Setting goals helped to keep me moving when it seemed like I wasn’t getting anywhere.”

While technology may make it easier for job seekers to apply for a position, the finishing touches to an application still count. Making sure your cover letter and application match the selection criteria in the advertisement is more important than how many applications you send out.

“One of the common mistakes people make” says Petrovic “is submitting only their resume without a cover letter addressing any criteria or personalising their application.”

Sally-Anne Blanchard says that while some people “believe their cover letter isn’t read” the truth is with the introduction of keyword software used by some recruiters and employers the “cover letter may be exactly what gets you on the Yes pile.”

There are other ways to ensure your resume is destined for the yes pile as well.

“Check spelling and grammar” says Blanchard “it’s basic but many applications are received with incorrect spelling. Have someone check your application before you send it. It could be the only chance you have at securing an interview.”

“Tick off each requirement” says Christine Khor “if you can do that, you’ll better your chances of getting an interview then sending in a generic cover letter.”

“Everything you need to obtain the job is right there in the advertisement” says Blanchard “use the same words to show your suitability for the role, and make sure you have a career objective on your resume that matches.”

“There is no point in sending in an application with a career objective that states you want to work for a large multi-national company if you’re applying for a small family owned business. Detail the career objective so that it matches the requirements of the company you are applying for.”

By matching the selection criteria in the advertisement you assist the employer to “breeze quickly through each application looking for the vital information they need” says Petrovic “keep it simple, sell what is important and leave the extra’s for the interview.

With employment being in a constant state of flux doing your research on what sectors are growing will assist in reducing the time spent looking for work.

“At the moment sales and marketing roles seem to be the most advertised” says Khor “in the wake of the recent global financial crisis companies are looking at income generating roles, more than manufacturing, or call centre.”

“The job sector is in a constant state of flux” says Petrovic “what worked yesterday may not work today.”

“Keep your network working for you” says Blanchard “even if you are unemployed take the time to go to breakfast meetings for your industry. By doing this you stay abreast of the current issues facing the industry and you’re able to network with others in the same space. I’ve had clients who obtained a job through the people they met at a breakfast briefing.”

“Looking for a job is definitely a job” Figliolini says “You have to set yourself goals, whether they’re daily, weekly or monthly.

Treating job hunting as a full time job, setting goals and achieving them help to train your mind and body for the time when you do get the real job.”

by Michael Cullen
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Prisoner Returning to Channel 10

September 15th 2010 05:59
Prisoner Cell Block H


Cult Australian TV Drama Prisoner, is to get a facelift, and is set to return to the small screen according to a report today on news.com.au Prisoner to Return

The hit TV show originally ran from 1979 - 1986, completing 692 episodes of the original series. A cult hit in the UK where it is known as Prisoner: Cell Block H, the show was the launch pad for many of Australia's best known actresses including Sigrid Thornton and Peta Toppano.

Original series producer Ian Bradley is working on the revamped concept that is to be called Inside Out, and centre's on an "..innocent woman wrongly accused who sets out for revenge.."

Inside Out is expected to air in 2011, and Ten's programming chief David Mott is hopeful the newly re-imagined Prisoner will go onto emulate the long-term success of the original.

I hope they bring back Maggie Kirkpatrick. She made that show as Joan "The Freak" Ferguson.

What do you think of them bringing back a reimagined version of such a classic and successful tv show? Leave a comment and let me know.
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Earlier this evening a vote was held in the NSW Upper House regarding the Clover Moore sponsored members bill which passed with a narrow win just last week


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Australian Election 2010 Julia Gillard Tony Abbott


During her election launch yesterday, Australian Sex Party President, Fiona Pattern sent the cat amongst the conservative pidgeons by announcing that the Family First Party had made an approach to the Australian Sex Party to secure a preference deal in the senate


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Yes, But Is It Art?

July 27th 2010 04:40
Bruce La Bruce LA Zombie Melbourne Film Festival


The latest offering by controversal Canadian film maker Bruce LaBruce was last week refused classification by the Australian Film Classification Board, and the director himself couldn't be happier


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Australian Election Julia Gillard Tony Abbott
Election Debate July 2010


On Sunday, July 25th 2010, the nation was faced its biggest problem so far this century. The Live Election debate or the series finale of Masterchef. Thankfully, the Election debate was moved an hour earlier so as not to interfere with the preferred viewing choice of a nation


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Whatchu Talking About TMZ

June 8th 2010 05:16
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Gary Coleman - image sourced from google.com


Celebrity gossip website TMZ is reporting today that the ex-wife of Different Strokes actor Gary Coleman has struck a deal with an unnamed tabloid to sell 3 photos of the star as he lay hooked up to life support machines. The photographs were taken just prior to his death. It is reported that his ex-wife will receive a cut of the profits


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NSW Relationship Register

May 13th 2010 07:11
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NSW Relationship Register Passes


As Wayne Swan laid out his Federal Budget on Tuesday night, NSW Lower House politicians debated the recently introduced NSW Relationship Register, which provides same sex couples and non married hetrosexual De Facto's with state recognition, as their relationships will be registered with the Department of Births, Deaths and Marriages


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Last night Australia's best and brightest television talent gathered in Melbourne for the TV Week Logie Awards. For those outside of Australia, the Logies - named for John Logie Baird - are the Australian equivalent of the Emmy Awards.

TV stalwart, Ray Meagher, who for the last 25 years has starred nightly in the role of gruff Alf Stewart on Home & Away, took out the Gold Logie for Most Popular Personality on Australian TV in a shock win, with most pundits expecting Packed to the Rafters star Rebecca Gibney to take out her second consecutive Gold Logie


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